DTES Women's Memorial March led by Elders

Their Spirits Live Within Us

This year marked the 26th annual February 14th Downtown Eastside Women’s Memorial March in Vancouver.

What can I say about my relationship to an event that simultaneously breaks and heals my heart year after year?

I found my way to the organizing committee of the DTES Women’s Memorial March over ten years ago while I was interning on Finding Dawn, a National Film Board documentary about missing and murdered Indigenous women in Canada by Métis Director Christine Welsh. I have had the privilege to be part of the sisterhood of this dynamic committee ever since.

Melanie Mark at Memorial March Feb 14 2016
Melanie Mark – MLA for Vancouver-Mount Pleasant

I believe it’s important to document the activism of our community, to record the courageous leadership of women who confront the obstacles of oppression, and more often oppressors, head on.

And it does feel like a head on collision when faced with just numbers: 1181 (RCMP),  4000+  (everyone else). And so we gather each year on Feb 14 to both name and honour those stolen mothers, sisters, daughters, aunties, grannies, partners and friends in ceremony, prayer and song. Because the individual women are more important than their combined numbers.

Audrey Siegl at the Memorial March Feb 14 2016
χɬemtəna:t (Audrey Siegl) sings the Women’s Warrior Song

Our loss, while immense, does not define us.  Our resilience does.

Histories are said to be written by victors. Cliché I know, but it’s part of why I have continued to document this ceremony for over a decade. So that our histories won’t be focused on who or what oppressed us, or worse, focused on the story of who took our lives. But rather on our resiliency and leadership as a community of women, in the face of immense violence, tragedy and injustice.

– Jessica Wood

Megan Branson marching in solidarity
Megan Branson offering roses in solidarity

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